Why is the Filipino special?
By JUAN L. MERCADO,
juan_mercado77@yahoo.com
June 29, 2012
( A friend, from our UN past, emailed this feature which he says was
written by former Sen. Ramon Magsaysay, Jr. You may find much to
agree with – or disagree. Anyway, read on - JLM )
Filipinos are brown. Our color should not be a reason for an
inferiority complex. (Some) pine for a fair complexion, white people
tan themselves – approximate the Filipino complexion.
Filipinos are a touching people. We create human chains with our
perennial akbay (putting an arm around another's shoulder),
hawak (hold), to kalabit (touching with the tip of the finger).
We seek inter connection.
Filipinos are linguists. It is not uncommon for Filipinos to speak at
least three: his own local dialect, Filipino, and English. A lot speak
an added language, Chinese, Spanish or, if he works abroad, the
language of his host country.
Filipinos are “groupists”. We surround ourselves with people and hover
over them. An average Filipino would have and know at least 300
relatives, notes Dr. Patricia Licuanan of Ateneo and Miriam College.
At work, we live bayanihan (mutual help). We want a kalaro
(playmate) more than laruan (toy). At socials, even guests
bring in other guests. When there is no more space in a vehicle, we
“Kalung-kalong” (Sit on one another). No one suggests splitting.
Filipinos are weavers. Look at our baskets, mats and other crafts.
This art is metaphor. We are social weavers. We weave theirs into ours
that we all become parts of one another. Thus, we put premium on
pakikisama (getting along) and pakikipagkapwa (relating).
Walang pakikipagkapwa (inability to relate) is one of the worst
labels.
We harmonize with people and include them in our 'tribe,' our
'family'. We seek to be included. Thus, we call our friend's mother
nanay, we call a friend's sister ate (eldest sister), and
so on. We even call strangers tia/tita (aunt) or tio/tito.
We have the 'ka' institution, loosely translated as 'equal to the same
kind' as in kasama (of the same company), kaisa (of the
same cause), kapanalig (of the same belief), etc. In our social
fiber, we treat other people as co-equals.
Filipinos are adventurers. We have a tradition of separation. Our
legends speak of heroes and heroines who almost always get separated
from loved ones, and move to far-away lands. There, they find wealth
or power.
Our Spanish colonial history is filled with separations caused by the
reduccion (hamleting), and forced migration to build towns, churches
or galleons. American occupation enlarged the space of Filipino
wandering, including America. There is documented evidence of Filipino
presence in America as far back as 1587.
Now, Filipinos compose the world's largest population of overseas
workers. Today's citizens of the world, bring the bagoong
(salty shrimp paste), pansit (sautéed noodles), siopao
(meat-filled dough), including the tabo (ladle) and tsinelas
(slippers).
Filipinos recreate their home, or feel at home anywhere. Filipinos
have pakiramdam (deep feeling/discernment). We know how to feel
what others feel. Being manhid (dense) is slur. In our
pakikipagkapwa (relating), we get not only to wear another man's
shoe but also his heart.
Filipinos are very spiritual. We transcend the physical world. We have
a sense of kaba (premonition) and kutob (hunch). A
Filipino wife instinctively feels her husband or child is going
astray, whether or not telltale signs present themselves.
Filipino spirituality makes him invoke divine intervention. Rightly or
wrongly, Filipinos are always acknowledging, invoking or driving away
spirits into and from their lives. His pakiramdam makes the
Filipino, once correctly Christianized, a major exponent of the faith.
Filipinos are timeless. For nearly half-a-millennium now, the western
clock encroached into our lives. Except for official functions,
Filipinos still measure time with feeling. Our time is diffused, not
framed.
Appointments are defined by umaga (morning), tanghali
(noon), hapon (afternoon), or gabi (evening). Our most
exact time reference is probably katanghaliang-tapat (high
noon), which allows many minutes of leeway.
There is really no definite time. A Filipino event has no clear-cut
beginning nor ending. We have a fiesta, but there is visperas
(eve), a day after the fiesta is still considered a good time to
visit. The Filipino Christmas is not confined to December 25th,
it somehow begins months before December and extends up to beyond the
first days of January.
Filipinos are spaceless. The Filipino concept of space is not
expressed in kilometers but with feelings. We say malayo (far)
or malapit (near). Indigenous culture did not divide land into
private lots but kept it open for all to partake of its abundance.
One's party may expropriate the street! So do sari-sari stores.
Provincial folks dry palayan (rice grain) on the highways.
Religious groups matter-of-factly commandeer streets for processions
and parades. “Filipinos eat, sleep, chat, socialize, quarrel, even
urinate, or just anywhere!”
So what makes the Filipino special? Brown, spiritual, timeless,
spaceless, linguists, groupists, weavers, adventurers; seldom do all
these qualities find personification in a people. Filipinos should
contribute their traits to the world-wide community of men. Ah, but
first, they should know, like and love themselves.