Pray, pray and pray
some more
By
Fr. ROY CIMAGALA, roycimagala@gmail.com
March 22, 2015
I'm not exaggerating. Our
need to pray is like our need to breathe. It should be non-stop, since
it is indispensable in our union with God our Creator, who keeps us
alive and healthy in our spiritual life. Again, let’s bring back a
basic truth – without God we are nothing!
The only difference is that
breathing is a bodily necessity and is instinctive and automatic until
we die, while praying is a spiritual necessity that requires conscious
effort and continues even after death though in a different form.
In fact, praying requires
faith, hope and charity which first of all are gifts from God that
need to be corresponded to by us with a lot of patience and the
dynamic interplay of all the other virtues.
We should not be surprised
by this requirement of prayer, much less complain about it, since
praying is our most basic way of dealing with God who has given us all
and who has the right to expect all for us also, we being his image
and likeness.
If understood and done
properly, praying actually gives us joy always. It enables us to see
and understand things better. More importantly, it helps us to have a
glimpse of God's will, where everything starts and is governed and led
to its proper end.
Praying processes and finds
the answers to all our needs. In good times and bad times, when we are
healthy or sick, when we enjoy successes or suffer defeats or are
tempted, praying comes as our natural way of coping with everything
that our spiritual life needs just like breathing does with our bodily
needs.
To those who are afraid that
praying just gets in the way of our human activities and concerns, the
contrary is true. If anything at all, praying tremendously helps us in
putting our activities and concerns in another level so they acquire a
spiritual, moral and supernatural value, which is proper to us, since
we are God's image and likeness, and children of his.
It fits in all the
situations of our life, because it is first of all a matter of
attitude, of an awareness that we are in the presence of God who asks
us to follow him and to love him.
Obviously, for our prayer to
be substantial, consistent and abiding, we need to spend some moments
of special and serious conversation with him, like some period of
mental prayer, meditating on God’s word, having recourse to the
sacraments, etc. These are like the refueling process that helps us to
continue going on with our spiritual life.
The important thing to
remember is that whatever we may be doing, we somehow should engage
our mind and heart with God. We should never dare to do things alone,
by our lonesome, relying only on our natural powers and some kind of
luck. That is the way to get carried away and swallowed up by the
mundane things.
It is when we are constantly
engaged with God that we get the light and the strength to deal with
our earthly affairs, knowing how to relate them always to our ultimate
goal, and not getting entangled with merely temporal goals. When we
pray, our sense of purpose and direction gets sharpened.
While it needs them, prayer
also actually nourishes our faith, hope and charity. Prayer puts us
into a virtuous cycle that brings us closer to our ideal ultimate
state of communion with God and with others.
No, prayer does not alienate
us from others nor from our earthly affairs. Quite the contrary is
true. It puts us in a proper relation to them, and helps us to avoid
the unhealthy entanglements with our worldly business.
This truth should be spread
out quite widely these days, since many now are the factors and
elements that tend to deny the indispensability of prayer in our life.
In short, what some people are saying is that we do not need God in
our life. We are our own god, our own lawgiver. We just rely on
whatever we have in terms of intelligence, talents and luck.
It should be clear to us
that prayer is indispensable to us. Unless we make ourselves souls of
prayer, we have reason to doubt whether we are truly living our life
properly. We should be wary of some worldly ideologies, like atheism,
agnosticism, hedonism, etc., that tend to mock the importance of
prayer in our life.
We have to overcome some
myths, like prayer is only for old women and little children, etc.